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Doreen Frances's avatar

This made me sad. My adoptive father also a devout Catholic was harsh with me too. He demanded perfection in school, my chores and obedience. My mom did not stand up to him either. Eventually, I did.

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Armand Beede's avatar

Mary Ellen Gambutti: My daughter and my son-in-law are loving parents of two boys and adoptive parents of a wonderful girl, then 8-months, now 17-years, from Hunan (in China).

She is well loved by all, including us grandparents.

We have a long-departed friend, who passed away at about 70 years of age, who was adopted and well-loved.

I don't understand the cruelty of your adoptive father at all.

As a devoted Catholic myself, who grew up under Pius XII and the Baltimore Catechism, I have never identified with the authoritarian, but rather with the Jesuit and meditational tradition.

I am very sorry indeed you grew up with sanctimonious, weak persons.

Thank you for sharing so deeply of yourself.

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